ladies first

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It is common to hear the




expression 'ladies first'. Women, in particular, daily repeat it as if it is a rule.



They actually feel proud of it,






unknowing its origin and its real indications. They think it is praise
to them, while it is a shame to be said according to its origin

The story of this saying took place in Italy.







It is about two lovers who loved each other so much. They decided to marry.




But some social circumstances and relatives block the way of their
marriage. They did not accept this and intentionally decided either to
live together as husband and wife, or to die. together Having done best
to achieve the marriage, they got disappointed. Dying was the only
option. They thought about a number of ways to commit the
suicide,throwing themselves into the sea was the appropriate way to
them. The man sincerely said he would not bear the situation of seeing
her drowning to death in front of his eyes. He convinced his beloved
that he would throw himself first and then she would do so latter.

In the rush moment, the man did it and drown. The lady was looking at
him as if he was 'singing'. The man was dead. It was the lady's turn to
follow him to live together underneath, as they decided. But she soon
broke her promise, forgetting her sweetheart who was dying in front of
her eyes and in heart as well.
She 'threw herself back to the village'. Yes! Her promise was to throw
herself. And she did, but to the village instead of the sea.
She came back home, to her relatives as if nothing has happened. Few
days later, she fell in love with another man. She was happy with him
as if it was her first love. It did not take a lot of time till she got
married to him
Since then, people start doubting ladies and start repeating the saying
'ladies first', with the implication that ladies should throw
themselves into the sea first, should die first, because they are not
trustworthy
It is really interesting when one hears a lady proudly says 'ladies
first', thinking that she adds a privilege for being a female. Some
people, men and women, take it as a social rule, unknowing its real
indications.
This is not a personal point of view. It is not, moreover, a personal
interpretation of the story. It is what many sources say and interpret
the original story. So, women please forgive me for shedding light on
this.
I do only a favor for women so that to be aware of when to say 'ladies
first' and when not to say. For me, I don’t care if I hear a woman
saying this. I way ignore or pretend deafness. But others may take it a
matter of satire

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